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Take
advantage of being alive! Dare to ask yourself what you'd like to
do today.
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It's
important to have some sense of the great potential of the world
and the number of things to do in it, even if only a fraction of
them are presently visible.
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Study
your life so that its direction is not accidental. You can still
take advantage of opportunities, but perhaps you can also create
some by your own good navigation.
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Seize
opportunities while you're still young and have few if any commitments
to children or mortgages. Don't wait for some green light. Don't
waste your youth with all its energy and possibilities and everything
in front of you. Get up and go make things happen for you.
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If
you want to go into business, try creating the kind of product or
service that you personally would like to experience.
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Invention
is problem solving, and the way forward is through invention. Think
about what you could invent for the different worlds that you inhabit:
the products, the services, the tactics, the techniques.
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Find
something that really needs to be done, and then set out to persuade
the world of it. Good ideas are not rare, getting them done is.
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In
business and in many other areas of life, it can help to look for
the elevators that are going up, then think big and do it quickly.
'Fish up stream' before the best catches have been taken.
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Everything
seems "impossible" until you try it. 18 months before, none of this
seemed doable, but you just move forward one step at a time.
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The
"yes, but what ifs" can cut our dreams to shreds.
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Go
for it! You're likely to lead a more interesting life, to meet more
interesting people, and to become a more interesting person yourself.
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I
wouldn't want to be a concert-level pianist exactly, but I do wish
I could play a musical instrument just well enough so that I could
express how I felt through playing it, and through singing a few
songs. It would also mean I could make a special contribution at
parties and get-togethers. I'm always very impressed when someone
else can.
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Paradoxically,
to be too careful can also be dangerous.
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Gambling
is a compulsion, an addiction. On the other hand, a "calculated
risk", is something very different. It is recognising the odds very
clearly, and then choosing to accept them.
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Never
do anything to damage your reputation for being honest and trustworthy.
Never do anything that would weaken your sense of self-respect for
yourself as a decent person at heart.
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Can
you make your own luck? Yes, you certainly can! You get up and go
find it. The more you try and the harder you practice, the luckier
you get.
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No
one on their deathbed ever wished they'd spent more time at the
office, got drunk more often, or had done more drugs.
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What
3 skills would you most like to learn? Out of all the people you
know, which 3 individuals would you most like to spend a long weekend
with? Name 3 activities you would really like to experience? Now
ask yourself how you could make some firm plans to do so.
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Some
real pleasures come from hindsight, even if the journey has been
hard.
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The
most wonderful times are spent with other people on little adventures.
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Test
out your fears and prejudices. Treat yourself to your dreams and
hopes, so that you can move beyond them.
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The
more you dread something and don't want to do it, the more you will
probably learn from it.
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One
of the worst feelings is walking away from something you wanted
to do, but you didn't have the nerve to take on.
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Have
the courage of your convictions. If it feels right, give it everything
you've got while that feeling lasts.
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Dare
to step out of line and break the mold to do something worthwhile
and important to you, because although it feels easier in the short
term to be normal and invisible, in the long term you'll only look
back and regret it.
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The
most wonderful times are spent with other people on little adventures.
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If
you've got a dream, pursue it. Follow that dream, no matter how
wild and hair-brained. You really don't want to wake up and find
yourself at 40 not knowing whether you could have been this or that
or the other - whether you could have been a striker for Arsenal
or played at the Met. Go and try out for the team and find out for
yourself. Don't hold back. Give it everything you've got. Chase
your dream and find out for sure. Even if there's no hope, at least
you will have got it out of your system and you'll know the bottom
line. There are few things worse than the regret of not having tried
in the first place. .
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If
you enjoyed the above section, you might like to take a look at these:
Finding a balance
in life
Coping with crises, set-backs, mistakes and regrets
Finding your passion |
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