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Your
attitude to life is probably the crucial starting place, the most
important ingredient that will determine what you make of it. I
say 'be positive', and by that I mean be highly active and enthusiastic.
Do things! Engage with life, don't drift across the surface. Initiate
things, get involved and take on plenty - plenty of responsibilities
and projects, plenty of opportunities and adventures. If we don't
improve, we don't grow. If we don't grow, are we really living?
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New
experiences and ideas are incredibly rewarding, but the problem
is they don't come to you - you have to get out there and get involved.
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Improvement
and growth take place when the individual takes calculated and considered
risks and dares to experiment with his or her own way of life.
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Life
is like a musical instrument: nothing happens until you decide to
play it. And the more you do, the more that will happen to you.
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As
your beliefs about limits change, the limits themselves are pushed
back.
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By
all means make mistakes, but just be sure that you live to fight
another day. Never over-stretch yourself so that a mistake or failure
prevents you from having another go sometime in the future.
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We
cannot discover new islands unless we have courage to lose sight
of the shore.
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Be
prepared to challenge yourself; challenge your prejudices and your
preconceptions about what you enjoy and how you behave.
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Develop
by experimenting. Try things out in low-cost situations. Innovate.
If an idea appeals to you, then do it! You're in a no-lose situation.
So what if something doesn't work out. At least you can learn from
your mistakes, and if it does work out, then "bingo!"
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Calculate
risks and reduce risk as far as possible, but don't be afraid of
taking them.
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Nobel
Prize winners very often describe themselves as having a thirst
for knowledge, or an exceptional sense of direction, or as being
very keenly - even obsessively - interested in the problems they
have pursued.
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Your
needs and ambitions will evolve in the light of new experiences,
so it makes sense to regularly re-evaluate and keep ready for change.
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You
have to keep running fairly hard just to stand still. You learn
lessons and then something happens and you realise you've got to
learn them all over again. You have to keep at it. It's called living!
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The
fundamental instinct is for growth, and so one should always aim
a bit higher so as to maintain a sense of satisfaction from life.
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Very
rarely is it money or time that really stops us from doing the things
we'd most like to do. It's fear of what other people might say.
It's our own inhibitions.
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At
some stage, try to work with some respected specialists in your
chosen field, so you realise that they, too, are flesh and blood,
and that you can perhaps keep up with them from time to time, if
only for a moment.
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The
more you progress, the harder it is to go further, or even maintain
your present form.
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One
of the greatest enemies of success is the various pressures on you
not to attempt to get up and do things, to rock the boat or change
the status quo for those around you, whether that pressure be from
friends, family or institutions.
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Surprise
yourself. Take on new things that you've no idea whether you'll
enjoy or not. That doesn't mean drugs, of course, because if you
enjoy those, you've only got addiction to look forward to; but if
you discover that you enjoy archaeology or hiking, then you've got
the whole world ahead of you.
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You
need to make sacrifices to really excel in one or another area.
What are you prepared to sacrifice to make something else to happen?
What's more important to you?
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If
you enjoyed the above section, you might like to take a look at these:
Changing direction
Overcoming shyness and building confidence
Your values and priorities |
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