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There
are probably at least a dozen professions that would each be just
as right for you as another. So don't imprison yourself with the
notion that there's one thing you're made for, and if you can't
do that it's not worth bothering.
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Don't
think you have to know what you're going to do by the end of the
final year of university. If needs be, take the year afterwards
to experiment, but don't just bum around. Make it your business
to learn about the various work-options that might suit you. Actively
investigate various possibilities by taking a work placement somewhere,
everywhere!
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Have
a thorough, in-depth review of what you've done in your life, and
what you've wanted to do. Be totally honest with yourself. It is
vital to know what you don't like, just as much as what you do,
so don't regret even the 'miserable' experiences.
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The
really clever thing is to arrange it so that the world rewards you
with money, gratititude and a good reputation for those things that
you want to do anyway.
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You
can set out to do whatever you want, as long as you understand two
things. 1) you're going to have to be extremely proactive. 2) You
might not make it.
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There
are certain fields in which you can more easily work towards and
predict a certain level of success, but in these arenas perhaps
the potential fianancial and public rewards are less than in a more
risky profession. Which would best meet your other requirements
from life?
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There's
no glory in embarking upon a high-risk profession if you've no desperate
urge for the lifestyle it promises.
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You
might want constant change and adventure from a job, or you might
prefer security and stability because you've got a great place to
live and great friends within driving distance. And, of course,
all of this might change in 6 months time as new experiences develop
your needs and horizons.
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Of
the many tens of thousands of would-be books that are written in
Britain each year, only a few hundred get published and only a few
dozen make just enough money so that the author can concentrate
full-time on their writing. In Britain, no more than a dozen writers
get rich on it. Very few people make a reasonable living as book
writers of any sort, very few people. The odds are awful: literally
a thousand to one against of being published successfully. Same
goes for painters and sculptors and musicians and actors and other
creative artists and performers. You'll be your own best friend
if you consider very carefully whether full-time pursuit of your
artistic passion is the only thing you want to do with your youth.
Why not deploy all that inventive creativity to make another equally
satisfying life for yourself, and save your artistic self-expression
for evenings, weekends and long vacations? That would still leave
the possibility that things could take off.
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Impressions
of what a particular industry or a company is like, are very often
false. Parents, friends and teachers can often be wrong or just
out of date in their views of what a particular world is really
like. There is usually a place to suit a wide variety of personalities
within any one organisation, and it's a question of exploring them.
Challenge your prejudices by talking to people who actually do the
job everyday, and by experiencing the environment first hand. Internships,
which offer 2 or 3 months work experience within a company, are
invaluable opportunities for you to see the organisation and for
them to see you.
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There may be a lot more choices out there than once there were,
but that doesn't make your choices any easier to achieve in reality.
You'll still have to earn them, and probably step by step, rather
than in one fell swoop.
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Beware
those professions where you think you would rather like the image,
but maybe the doing the job day to day wouldn't be so hot. And if
you won't enjoy the training, it's unlikely you'll enjoy the profession.
Seek out those things that you suspect you would love to do for
their own sake before any consideration of the image or the public
rewards.
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Film-making
seems great until you've hung around a cold set all day for a ten-second
shot that ends up on the cutting room floor, and you have to do
the same thing four weeks running. One in fifty hopeful producers
and directors end up making dozens of documentaries or movies, while
the other forty-nine spend most of their careers making corporate
training videos or, if they finally get lucky, TV commercials for
toilet paper. Just as it is with most of the artistic professions,
you're either a star or you're nothing at all.
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If
you like performing to an attentive audience, that could make you
a good teacher, a barrister, an actor, or a sales executive, yet
each of these professions offers quite different styles of life
and a sense of who and what you are.
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Look
for those activities or a career that you could take pride in saying
you do: not just what you do, but how you do it. Doing a good job
has its own invisible rewards. Earn your living doing something
that you thoroughly enjoy for its own sake before any consideration
of the social status or salary or approval that you hope it might
afford you.
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Raw
enthusiasm isn't enough on its own; you've got to have a sense of
direction. Find yourself a path that you could put your whole heart
into. You don't need to give your future goal a 6-figure compass
reference, but it helps to decide that you are going this way, rather
than that.
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Give
things a proper try-out: that means a try-out that's long enough
to include all the pains and pressures as well as the pleasures.
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Identify
your 'unusual features', your differences, and make these work for
you. Make them a strength and explore and mine them. Let your uniqueness
be your competitive advantage.
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Ask
yourself, 'Do I know what my capabilities are? Where does my potential
lie?' That's not to say that's what you'll do, or that's what you'll
do for the next 10 years, but at least it's a good base to build
upon.
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Whatever
you do, do it well. Doing things well brings a great sense of satisfaction,
no matter that it's cleaning your bathroom or building a company.
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Make
a niche for yourself. Find a job, a place, and make it yours.
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Your
mum and dad only want you to become a lawyer, a dentist, a medical
doctor or an accountant, because they know too well how painful
it is to be broke, and they want you to have a secure source of
income. But in tomorrow's world, there will be many new ways, if
as yet little known ways, to make a very good living. It's up to
you to hunt these out.
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My
parents didn't know that they didn't know how the working world
was changing or had already changed from the one they grew up in.
They didn't know that their prejudices as to what was or wasn't
a worthy career ambition, were dangerously out of date.
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Many
young people are worried about disappointing their parents, but
this means their choices for action are dictated by their parents'
values rather than their own.
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Just
because one can become a Wimbledon Champion or Business Tycoon through
absolute dedication, this doesn't mean one should.
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Be
brave enough to take a year out after university to shape your ideas,
and to investigate a range of companies and industries. But don't
try this exploration near your home or where you went to university.
You need new ideas and perspectives, and creating physical distance
from those familiar places and people is really the only way to
achieve that.
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It
is estimated that in 16 years time, the microchip will be 1,000
times more powerful than it is today. How do you imagine that will
effect daily life, the working world, and your part in it?
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Dare
to consider what the zeitgeist is, and what soicety will be crying
out for in just a year or two's time. Five years ago mobile phones
weren't that big a deal. Two years ago, the web was just emerging.
What's next?
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Our
world is changing so rapidly that you can't predict or follow a
blueprint of how to conduct your life, you have to be prepared to
adapt, and to know how to adapt.
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The
amount and intensity of practice is a key determinant of whether
an individual reaches national or international status in their
chosen field. It has been estimated that what is usually required
is perhaps 70 or 80 hours per week for at least 10 years or more
to have a chance of reaching international standing in most fields,
no matter if the field be predominantly intellectual or physical.
The indivdiual might do well to consider whether 10 years or more
of focused commitment to achieve expertise in a single arena may
not produce a level of overall satisfaction from life that can compete
with the total sum of satisfaction derived from even moderate achievements
in several domains of activity, professional and extra-curricular.
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It
can be painful to realise that sometimes even your best friends
don't always want to help you get where you're going, simply because
they don't want to lose you.
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The
greatest influence on our everyday choices, behaviour and expectations
is the real-life examples in our immediate vicinity. This is why
we need to brush shoulders with a whole host of different worlds.
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If
you enjoyed the above section, you might like to take a look at these:
· Your values and priorities
· Succeeding in your work environment
· Overcoming shyness and building self-confidence
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