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Dr Nick Baylis, research Director for younglives.com |
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3: Where this might be leading |
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With
all of the above in mind, the younglives research would predict
that the first ten years of the new century will be characterised
in the West by a gentle revolution in which individuals increasingly
prioritise their 'quality of life in terms of emotional satisfaction'.
To this end, the 'all-round development of oneself' will become
the most popular raison d'etre - a culture whose icon will be the
person exploring and developing in positive and enjoyable ways all
aspects of their physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual
life-experience.
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The
most pioneering individuals will increasingly reassess their whole
approach to life, weighing-up their 'standard of living' by how
much they feel that they are fulfilling their most profoundly meaningful
goals - meaningful by their own standards, not by anyone else's.
Consequently, they will pay less attention to the qualifications,
badges, income and status-goals that have held sway for so long.
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This
emphasis on 'quality of life' will not manifest itself in a drug-fuelled
naive free-for-all. The recreational drug culture has largely arisen
out of despair at how life feels, and will fast lose its appeal
when confronted by more enduringly satisfying alternatives. Individuals
won't lose their determination to achieve, they will simply personalise
and broaden their ambitions. People will more and more want to enjoy
the journey to their goals; and an enjoyable journey will be acknowledged
as a worthy end in itself.
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This
emerging culture of all-round personal development will benefit
those who are students, or those who are looking for, but have not
yet found, paid employment. This is because it emphasises the personal
control that each individual can exercise over their own quality
of life-experience, and acknowledges that there are many sources
of satisfaction other than those derived from the confines of academic
performance or a pay-packet.
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It
is possible that if Britain's economy enjoys a high boom over the
next two years, perhaps fuelled by the new communications industries,
the most avant-garde young adults might be persuaded to postpone
their 'all-round personal development' if they think they can make
a fortune by working flat out in one direction for five years. But
these same individuals are on a short fuse, not least because they've
essentially been frontline young executives with their foot to the
floor since they were 11 years old. Given half a chance, they would
like to embark on a whole new adventure: designing and living their
own lives.
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What
will motivate this gentle revolution in life-values?
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There
have been several decades of aggressive materialism which have not
brought the increase in pleasure from life that had been anticipated.
Moreover, the traditional social prizes of wealth, beauty, status
and fame have been widely deglamorised by the media's ever more
searing exposés, and this will spur individuals to consider more
profound and durable alternatives.
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The
work markets will increasingly require individuals to be self-responsible
for managing their own work and leisure lives, inevitably leading
us to pay more attention to how we invest our time. Moreover, the
internet and other information technologies will allow us to develop
our personal and professional lives at our own pace.
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Leading
companies are increasingly recognising the need for 'well rounded
personalities' among their young intake. This will encourage employers
to offer attractive 'life-style concessions' to the most sought-after
young adults, and this substantial change in requirements will fast
effect the values and culture of the more receptive Universities
and Secondary Schools.
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Star
individuals and major brands are increasingly willing and able to
completely reinvent themselves, and this 'license to transform yourself'
is equally useful to adventurous individuals in any walk of life.
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Trail-blazer
brands are explicitly urging young adults to reclaim themselves
- which is what younglives.com is all about: helping us to become
who and what we want to be, no matter where we are at the moment.
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The
Spirit of our Time
Of
all the movies cited above as in some way capturing a part of the Zeitgeist,
it is American Beauty that most closely reflects the younglives research
findings so far. (My gratitude to Alan Ball and Sam Mendes, writer and
director respectively.)
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Lester
may be a 42 year old Advertising Executive, but many of his self-criticisms
are sentiments that individuals half his age or younger would fear
were equally applicable to themselves: "It's okay. I wouldn't remember
me either." "I feel like I've been in a coma for about 20 years,
and I'm just now waking up."
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Unsurprisingly
in respect of this, an underlying theme of the film seems to be
'wanting to have our youth again, and this time to get it right'…which
is a thought that goes as much for the 16 and 18 year olds as for
Lester and his Estate-Agent wife.
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When
considering the value of material possessions, Lester observes "It's-just-a-couch!
This isn't life, this is just stuff. And it's become more important
to you than living. Well, honey, that's just nuts." But from the
catalogue of recriminations, emerges a powerful sense of hope: "It's
never too late to get it back." The Pontiac Firebird that Lester
always wanted since he was a boy and finally buys for himself, isn't
a show of materialism, it's the emotional realisation of a lifelong
dream, it's a declaration of his need for beauty and joy. And once
he starts treating himself right, he starts treating other people
right as well. Rather than having sex with the 16 year old apple
of his eye, Lester makes her a sandwich; and this same young women
reciprocates his compassion by asking him 'How are you?' - and she
means it, too.
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Lester
is right: "It's a great thing when you realise you still have the
ability to surprise yourself."
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