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Dr Nick Baylis, research Director for younglives.com |
Part
2:
What this life leaves us wanting most of all |
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believe that the relative popularity of best-selling films directly reflects
the pertinence of certain life-themes to the individuals that watch them.
With this in mind, I endeavour to pair each point below with some illustrative
box-office success stories. Note how certain films corner the market in
key themes.
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The
Zeitgeist for the first decade of the year 2000 promises to be the
question: "How to lead a meaningful and significant life? What is
my reason for being?" These are crucial questions which hold the
motivational key to our every attitude and behaviour. If the new
technologies have been the most dominant feature of the 1990s, individuals
have started to reflect upon what on earth they want all that speed-of-light
information for in the first place. Because so many of the traditional
rule-books and route-maps to life are now outdated or discredited,
there is a pervasive fear that our lives will be trivial, and we
yearn for some clear cause, some worthy battle that is greater than
ourselves. (A key theme in The Star Wars Trilogy; The Sixth Sense;
Good Will Hunting; Toy Story 1 & 2; Titanic; Saving Private Ryan;
Independence Day; and Armageddon.)
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We
want to discover some extra dimension to life, whether Mother Nature,
Information Technology, a government conspiracy on a massive scale,
Alien Beings, or even Good and Evil. In the vacuum left by the shrinking
influence of formal religion, there is a longing for some 'unseen
factor' that is just below the surface. (A key theme in Men in Black;
Independence Day; Enemy of the State; The X-Files; Twister; Jurassic
Park; The Matrix; The Blair Witch Project; and The Sixth Sense.)
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We
need to have a satisfying public role in life so as to bring us
an affirming sense of identity: Ever-popular are films and TV shows,
fiction and non-fiction, that focus on the emergency and helping
professions and other high-action, high-profile occupations that
have broad public appeal. (A key theme in ER; Good Will Hunting;
Saving Private Ryan; and The Sixth Sense.)
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There
has been a rejection of films that sell aggression, malevolence
or amorality, because our real life is quite difficult enough. Consequently,
in the last couple of years, films that have peddled gratuitous
horror or amorality have done poorly at the box office. (For example:
I Know What You Did Last Summer 2; Cruel Intentions; Fight Club;
Go; and Happiness.)
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There
is widespread championing of 'the individual', no matter how humble
that person. (A key theme in The Wedding Singer; The Full Monty;
Titanic; Notting Hill; The Simpsons; Toy Story 1 & 2; American Beauty;
Saving Private Ryan; Forrest Gump; and Titanic.) Hand in glove with
this sentiment goes a diminishing sense of interest or allegiance
in anything political, national, community or institutional.
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'Pleasing
yourself' and the search for personal happiness, is regarded as
a highly legitimate goal. This is closely allied to introspection
which is very much in fashion, only there is considerable uncertainty
about what the building blocks of happiness and fulfillment might
be. (A key theme in Antz; Good Will Hunting; American Beauty; and
The Beach.) It seems that reckless fun is only a temporary response
to worry and pressure, rather than a genuine bid for happiness.
No one believes in the merits of taking instant gratification, it's
just that we feel forced into it by circumstances.
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Compassion
for the underdog, the 'nerd', the 'misfit', is on the rise as we
become increasingly aware of our own soft underbelly. However, owning
up to our fragility strikes very close to home, and is best broached
with lots of humour.. (A key theme in Forrest Gump; Austin Powers;
American Pie; Something About Mary; The Simpsons; and American Beauty.)
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We
are attracted to larger-than-life personalities, or someone bravely
reaffirming their identity. We gravitate towards those people who
seem comfortable inside their skins, and who are enjoying themselves.
(Key themes in Austin Powers: the spy who shagged me, and American
Beauty, respectively.) Such out and out eccentricity is a refreshing
contrast to how we feel most of the time.
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There
are demoralising inequities in the social rewards for one job compared
to another: Every day, we read about the £10 million per annum 21
year old soccer star, or the dot-com millionaire aged 25. What does
this say about our society's appreciation of the £25,000 per year
Secondary School Teacher who just turned 30?
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Sons
desperately crave the support of their fathers, and related to this
is a major psychological need for Male Mentors, probably because
young guys are finding it harder to progress from adolescence to
respectable manhood in a social and economic climate that seems
stacked against them. (A key theme in Men in Black; Enemy of The
State; The Matrix; Good Will Hunting; and The Sixth Sense.)
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Enduring
friendships are paramount in our lives. In reaction to the ever
more pressured and complex world, qualities such as listening and
caring and "won't let you down" are becoming increasingly appealing
traits, and are fast competing with or even overtaking the attractiveness
of 'cool, beautiful, clever and self-contained'. For the great majority
of individuals, it has been the companionship enjoyed during significant
periods of time spent with friends and lovers that have made them
most glad to be alive; and it is the memory and hope of such intimate
relationships with particular people and places, that is fundamentally
important to them. (A key theme in Good Will Hunting; X-Files; Shakespeare
in Love; Notting Hilll; and Toy Story.)
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In
a virtual age when so much is seen and so little done, we crave
the intimacy of physical and sexual contact. And in an information
age that threatens to drown emotion, we crave the intimacy of romance.
(Romantic & sexual expression are key themes in Titanic; Shakespeare
in Love; Notting Hill; American Pie; and American Beauty.) Whether
you can risk having a sexual relationship with your all-important
friends, is a major dilemma.
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Certain
personality traits are universally attractive: Men and women alike
are very attracted to humour, thoughtfulness, passion for what you
do, direction and self-motivated ambition, feeling comfortable with
yourself, ability to enjoy yourself and be happy, and taking more
interest in other people than yourself. (In fact, all those things
we suspect ourselves of lacking, because under today's pressures
we feel neurotic, cowardly, dull, directionless, exhausted, miserable,
and self-obsessed.)
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Certain
physical traits are universally attractive: If you're a women, it's
not boobs, bums, thighs or blonde hair that are the keys to your
attractiveness; if you're a guy it's not big muscles. For both sexes,
it's your eyes, smiles and voice which are your most attractive
features once anyone's gone beyond the first five minutes with you
- probably because your eyes, voice and smile say so much about
you, and about how you regard the person with whom you're talking.
We might fantasise about being drop-dead gorgeous, but just about
everyone would happily settle for feeling confident within their
body and being fit and toned.
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There
has been a marked increase in sexual relationships between young
women in their late teens and early twenties. There is now a generation
of high-flying, hot-shot young women professionals in their early
and mid twenties whose glamorous job status makes them highly attractive
to slightly younger but equally ambitious women. These lesbian affairs
do not exclude heterosexual relationships, which very often run
in parallel.
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For
the past few years, there has been a male counter-attack against
the more extreme manifestations of feminism and Political Correctness.
Young men are eager to gain back just a little ground in the battle
for equality, and their greatest weapon is humour provided liberally
by relaunched magazines and new movies. (A key theme in Loaded and
FHM magazines; and Austin Powers; South Park; the Simpsons; and
Something about Mary.)
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We
want to laugh at ourselves and our society - because although we
may be slaves to the system, we ain't fooled by it. (This would
explain the universal success of the affectionately self-recriminating
cultural satires of authors Bill Bryson and Helen Fielding; and
the screen comedies such as American Pie, Austin Powers, South Park
and The Simpsons.)
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Young
people hanker for more emotionally expressive cultures, with less
stress on educational and career success. Hence, travel has become
a key touchstone for the 'care-free independence and escape' so
sought-after. (A key theme in The Beach.)
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A
nostalgia for the mythical heydays of the 20th century. This nostalgia
is born largely of a fear of, or even despair in, the future. The
past, whether real or imagined, offers a sense of security and comfort.
Many of us would dearly like to travel back in time so as to guide
younger versions of ourselves in more fulfilling directions. Maybe
then, our present predicament could be avoided. (This nostalgic
time travel is a key theme in Austin Powers; Titanic; and The Sixth
Sense.)
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